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Your Guide to Never Feeling Tired Again

WebMD Feature from “Redbook” Magazine

By Nancy Rones

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22 ways to tackle life’s biggest energy zappers.





Every day, 2.2 million Americans complain of being tired. Most of us chalk
it up to having too much to do and not enough time to do it in, especially
during extra-busy periods. But often the true culprits are our everyday habits:
what we eat, how we sleep, and how we cope emotionally. Read on for some
simple, recharging changes that can help you tackle all of the energy stealers
in your life.

Energize Your Diet

Why is it that filling up on pasta
or Chinese food for lunch leaves us snacky and sleepy an hour later? Or that
falling short on fluids makes us forgetful and foggy? Fact is, eating habits
play a powerful role in how well we function on every level. Below, six top
fatigue-fighting nutrition strategies to chew on.

  • Have breakfast… even if you don’t feel hungry. You’ll be a lot
    perkier: Studies show that people who eat breakfast feel better both mentally
    and physically than those who skip their morning meal. British researchers at
    Cardiff University even found that spooning up a bowl of breakfast cereal every
    morning is associated with lower levels of the stress hormone cortisol.
  • Eat every three to four hours. Having three smallish meals and two
    snacks throughout the day can keep your blood sugar and energy levels stable
    all day long, says Roberta Anding, R.D., a spokesperson for the American
    Dietetic Association (ADA). Note the word “smallish.” Supersized meals
    demand more of your energy to digest, which can leave you feeling lethargic. At
    each mini-meal, get a mix of carbohydrates (which the body uses for energy),
    protein (which helps sustain energy if needed), and healthy fats like those
    found in fish, nuts, and olives — these fats and protein contribute to meal
    satisfaction, so you don’t go hunting for sweets an hour later and wind up with
    a short-lived sugar high and subsequent crash. A few meal ideas: a low-fat
    yogurt parfait with berries and a couple of tablespoons of whole-grain granola;
    salmon over mixed greens with whole-grain crackers; and beef tenderloin with a
    baked sweet potato and asparagus.
  • Fill up on more fiber. Fiber has a time-releasing effect on carbs,
    so they enter your bloodstream at a slow and steady pace, giving your energy
    staying power, says Anding. When choosing your mini-meals (see above), include
    fiber-filled options that add up to the daily recommended 25 to 30 grams of
    fiber (the average person gets only between 10 and 15 grams). Some suggestions:
    a bowl of raisin bran (5 grams of fiber per cup); black beans and cheese
    wrapped in a multigrain tortilla (beans have 7.5 grams per 1/2 cup; one
    tortilla has 5 grams); air-popped popcorn (3.6 grams per 3 cups); an apple with
    the skin (3.3 grams); and whole-wheat spaghetti (6.3 grams per cup).
  • Fuel your brain with omega-3s. Found in fatty fish (such as tuna and
    salmon), walnuts, and canola oil, these essential fatty acids play a role in
    keeping brain cells healthy and helping you feel mentally alert. Another
    potential bonus: Omega-3s encourage the body to store carbs as glycogen — the
    storage form of glucose (blood sugar) and the body’s main source of stored fuel
    — rather than as fat.
  • Stay hydrated. Water makes up the majority of your blood and other
    body fluids, and even mild dehydration can cause blood to thicken, forcing the
    heart to pump harder to carry blood to your cells and organs and resulting in
    fatigue. Also, ample fluids keep energy-fueling nutrients flowing throughout
    the body, says Nancy Clark, R.D., author of Nancy Clark’s Sports Nutrition
    To gauge your hydration, Clark recommends monitoring how often
    you urinate. You should be going every two to four hours, and your urine should
    be clear or pale yellow in color. Tip: Besides drinking more, you can also
    consume foods that naturally contain water, such as yogurt, broccoli, carrots,
    and juicy fruits, like watermelons, oranges, and grapefruits.
  • Watch caffeine intake after noon. Typically, consuming a moderate
    amount of caffeine — 200 to 300 mg, the amount found in two to three cups of
    coffee — can make you more energetic and alert in the hours following, says
    Anthony L. Komaroff, M.D., a professor of medicine at Harvard Medical School.
    But when caffeine is consumed in large quantities — or anytime in the afternoon
    or evening — the quality of your sleep that night can take a nosedive, leaving
    you with heavy eyelids the next day. One caution for those who are highly
    sensitive to caffeine: Although switching to a decaf latte in the afternoon
    sounds like the answer, researchers at the University of Florida found that out
    of 22 decaffeinated coffee beverages tested, all but one contained some

Energize Your Spirit

  • We’re all familiar with physical exhaustion, but mental strain — sadness,
    boredom, worry, anger, and general stress (the biggie) — can take an even
    heavier toll on vitality, completely wearing you out. Life happens, and these
    difficult emotions will, too. But if you react wisely, your brain and body will
    rebound — along with your vim and vigor.
  • Splash some water on your face or take a shower when you’re feeling
    Some 55 percent of study participants reported using these
    types of “water therapy” to successfully increase their energy,
    according to findings in the Journal of Personality and Social
    Apparently, a little H 2 O refresher can instantly
    help take the edge off when you’re feeling overwhelmed.
  • Suit up in a “power” outfit to beat the blahs. Fight the
    tendency to throw on sweats when you’re feeling sluggish. Although it may seem
    counterintuitive to slip into the skirt you save for special occasions, it
    helps to look in the mirror and see an energizing image — not a deflating one
    that confirms and reinforces your internal state, says Alice D. Domar, Ph.D.,
    founder and executive director of the Domar Center for Complementary Healthcare
    in Waltham, MA. Dressing for success will give you a big mental boost every
    time you catch sight of your reflection (or receive a compliment) throughout
    the day.
  • Vent your feelings. Keeping fear, anxiety, and stress pent up inside
    may seem like a grown-up way to deal with these emotions. But discussing
    negative feelings with another person can ease them far better than keeping
    them bottled up; by airing them, you reduce their ability to sap your stamina,
    says Komaroff, who is also the editor-in-chief of the Harvard Health
  • Turn on some tunes. Listening to music is one of the most effective
    ways to change a bad mood, decrease tension, and increase energy. Consider
    this: Runners in one study who listened to music while on the treadmill ran
    faster than those who jogged in silence — no matter how loud the volume or how
    fast the tempo, according to new findings in the journal Ergonomics.
    Other research suggests that music effectively distracts you from feeling
    fatigue. Try burning a CD of your favorite songs and playing it anytime you
    need a pick-me-up. (If you exercise, so much the better — but the music will
    move you either way.)
  • Let go of grudges. Nursing a grudge prompts your mind and body to
    react as if they’re under chronic stress, increasing your heart rate and blood
    pressure and potentially resulting in an impaired immune system and exhaustion
    over time, according to a study in the journal Psychological Science. On
    the other hand, practicing empathy and forgiveness after you’ve been wronged
    makes you feel as if you’re back in control, which keeps the body’s stress
    responses in check. The next time you find yourself harboring ill feelings,
    repeat a stress-relieving mantra to yourself, such as, “Forgiveness makes
    me a happier and stronger person.”
  • Take belly breaths. When we’re under stress, we’re prone to take
    “chest breaths” — short, shallow ones, says Domar. Chest breathing
    brings less air into the lungs and reduces the supply of energizing oxygen to
    the body and brain, leaving you physically and mentally drained. The goal is
    deep, diaphragmatic breathing — like that of a sleeping infant: When you
    breathe in, your belly should round and fill like a balloon; on an exhale, your
    belly should slowly deflate. Of course, remembering to practice deep breathing
    isn’t the first thing on your mind when you’re under the gun, so as a visual
    reminder, try posting a tranquil picture (such as a pool of water or your kids
    smiling) with the word “breathe” next to your computer, or anywhere you
    tend to feel on edge.
  • De-clutter a corner. Go through that teetering pile of papers or
    overflowing closet and clear it out. Clutter can make you feel out of control
    and overwhelmed, especially when you’re already feeling stressed or down. Plus,
    simply accomplishing a goal, no matter how seemingly minor, can be energizing,
    says Domar.
  • Do some good. Acts of altruism can lend a little pep to your step.
    In fact, one study in the Journal of Health and Social Behavior found
    that volunteer work can boost your energy in six ways: It enhances happiness,
    life satisfaction, self-esteem, sense of control over life, physical health,
    and mood. Find short- and long-term volunteer opportunities at and

Get a Restorative Rest

When you have a lot to do (um…always), usually the first thing to get
squeezed off your agenda is sleep. But miss out on shut-eye and your energy,
positivity, productivity, and memory are sure to suffer. And nearly a quarter
of American adults aren’t getting enough rest, which has led to an epidemic of
daytime sleepiness, according to a poll by the National Sleep Foundation. The
key to bucking this trend is to brush up on sleep hygiene. Try these steps for

  • Cut back on TV and computer time after 8 p.m. If you’re already a
    night owl (you go to bed late and sleep in on weekends), the bright light
    emitted from television and computer screens can make falling asleep at a
    decent hour even harder. The reason: Light suppresses the production of
    melatonin, a hormone secreted at sunset that tells the brain that it’s
    nighttime, explains John Herman, Ph.D., director of the training program in
    sleep medicine at the University of Texas Southwestern Medical School at
    Dallas. And when melatonin levels are low, your brain is fooled into thinking
    that it’s still daytime — and remains raring to go. Whenever possible, wait
    until the next morning to tune in and/or log on. If you must use light-emitting
    technology at night, try to turn it off an hour or two before hitting the
  • Hide your alarm clock. Watching the clock to see how long it’s
    taking you to drift off or how much time you have left before your alarm goes
    off can result in a poor night’s sleep, says Kelly A. Carden, M.D., medical
    director of the Sleep Health Center Affiliated with Hallmark Health at Medford
    in Medford, MA. This hypervigilance keeps the brain awake and alert and
    prevents you from slipping into deep, restorative sleep. The easy fix: Set your
    alarm clock, then either face the numbers away from you or put it on the floor,
    in a drawer, or across the room.
  • Give your pet his own separate sleeping space. At night, pets snore,
    jiggle their tags, move around a lot, and even hog the covers and bed space.
    It’s no wonder that 53 percent of pet owners who sleep with their pets in the
    bedroom have some type of disrupted sleep every night, according to a study
    from the Mayo Clinic Sleep Disorders Center in Rochester, MN. Consider
    relocating your furry friend’s sleeping quarters to another area, even if it’s
    just his own bed in your bedroom.
  • Lower the thermostat. For a good night’s sleep, make sure your room
    is comfortably cool — enough so that you need a light blanket. This ensures
    that your environment is in sync with your body’s internal temperature, which
    naturally drops during the night, according to the National Sleep Foundation.
    Studies suggest the ideal sleeping temperature is between 54 and 75 degrees;
    anything cooler or warmer may cause you to wake up.
  • Skip the nightcap. Alcohol depresses the nervous system — the system
    of cells, tissues, nerves, and organs that controls the body’s responses to
    internal and external stimuli. So while sipping a glass of wine before bed may
    help you nod off, the sedative effects wear off as your body metabolizes the
    alcohol, which may cause you to wake up in the middle of the night and have
    trouble falling back to sleep. Alcohol has also been shown to interfere with
    the body’s natural 24-hour biorhythms, causing blood pressure to rise and heart
    rate to race at night when it’s normally calm and relaxed. You don’t have to
    give up that evening cocktail entirely to achieve sound sleep — just try to
    avoid alcohol within two to three hours of bedtime.
  • Get your exercise. While scientists don’t yet understand why,
    aerobic exercise has been proved to help you fall asleep faster at bedtime,
    spend more hours in deep sleep, and wake up less often throughout the night,
    says Komaroff. At the same time, vigorous exercise can act like a stimulant
    (which is a great daytime energizer), so schedule your workouts in the morning
    or afternoon, when you need a boost the most.
  • Follow the 15-minute rule. If you can’t fall asleep, or if you wake
    up and can’t get back to sleep within about 15 minutes, get out of bed and do
    something relaxing that will help clear your head, such as reading, meditating,
    or knitting (but not watching TV or surfing the Web). Then, once you feel
    sleepy again, go back to bed. If you stay put and fret about being awake,
    you’ll only make yourself more anxious — and less likely to catch the z’s you
  • Write down your worries. During the day, jot down any stressors that
    are weighing on you, says Carden. Then, do some mental problem-solving before
    your head hits the pillow — or, if you’re falling short on solutions, tuck your
    list away and resolve to brainstorm ideas during your morning shower or commute
    to work. Just knowing you’ve established a plan for tackling your to-do’s will
    make you feel like you’ve made some progress, allowing you to relax, drift off
    — and wake up the next morning ready to take on the day.

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